THE NATURE OF ATTITUDE
From thought it comes to Attitude. Attitude varies in each person at different incidents. Generally we human beings have different feelings at different times with different people.

It all starts from I, you see yourself in others only then you can get along with that person. Your reflection is on that person. In case, you find that some characters of yours are not found in that person, you dislike that person saying I am not like that, you try to highlight your point, you emphasize on that more. This is human tendency. For example our fingers are not of same length but because of various sizes it becomes very flexible for our hand to hold, stretch, make fist.
Same way all of us have different thinking and different views.

We all should understand everybody has positive and Negative weakness. Weakness levels vary in each individual .We always should focus on positive. Everyone’s Interest, tastes, goals, priorities, commitments are different from one another. Each person has their own set of ups and downs. There is no necessity for anyone to comment on that behind. None knows whets the actual truth. Only person who knows is who is involved and God. How is it going to solve by discussing with others behind, passing sarcastic comments or ridiculing. No, this is absolutely wrong. In case, if we would love to do something. Please help that person.

Giving help: give help and do not broadcast your help to everyone. When you help someone, help without expectations and not broadcasting proudly that you helped someone .This is not called help then, a person who helps will always not disclose to anyone. That’s pure help and that is divine help.
TRUST ME YOU WILL ALWAYS GET BACK YOUR DIVINE HELP BY GODS GRACE WHEN YOU ARE IN NEED AND DESPERATE. THIS IS TRUTH.
This reflects to WHAT YOU GIVE ALWAYS YOU GET BACK WITH INTEREST. Every move in life deals with Attitude always is positive attitude .I knows its not possible at all times, but we can try to be ....isn't it?
Positive living helps in every aspect of our lives.

We are so calculative in life, why should I do? No better work? Do they do me anything? Always you take initiative in giving help. But do not let other person to overrule you or take advantage of you. This leads to misunderstanding, spoils relationship. Be careful in what you do. Be compassionate with others.

Most of the times we take help too. We appreciate at that time and forget later. Never ever do that because we should always have ATTITUDE WITH GRATITUDE every time because throughout our life journey, we do take help from somebody or the other. Help that person whenever he or she requires our help most. At certain circumstances you may really not be able to help because of many reason .As much as possible don’t give excuse and try to help. You do help others as well; it could be even a stranger, that’s alright, its ok. WHERE THERE IS A WILL THERE IS A WAY. We come across many people in different shapes and sizes, different colours, in day to day life. Please do not criticize them .Accept them as they are. That’s humanity.

When we travel sometimes we come across beggars, abnormal appearances, etc.... Do not frown at them or make faces or teasing them or using rude words yuck and stuff.
Do we know how much that person will feel and he or she will be hurtled? In such occasions, my parents used to say just pray god and request and plead him to help the person you have seen. We all follow in our family .Teach our children also the same. They will observe us and follow. YOU DONT SYMPATHIZE BUT EMPATHIZE.

Attitude plays a vital role in every human beings life at every time. It is anywhere and everywhere - Home, office, travelling, school, airport......heaps of places and situations. I would like to end this with


DO ALL THE GOOD YOU CAN,
BY ALL THE MEANS YOU CAN,
IN ALL THE WAYS YOU CAN,
IN ALL THE PLACES YOU CAN,
AT ALL THE TIMES YOU CAN,
TO ALL THE PEOPLE YOU CAN
AS LONG AS EVER YOU CAN.
- JOHN WESLEY

THIS SEVEN LINES OF WISDOM LEADS TO A VERY GOOD ATTITUDE TO ONE AND ALL, LETS HAVE HELPING ATTITUDE AND HELP OTHERS.